Before becoming a mentor, here are a few things to understand about the role of mentoring. Most of us have had a teacher, supervisor, or coach who has been a mentor to us and made a positive difference in our lives. Those people wore many hats, acting as delegators, role models, cheerleaders, policy enforcers, advocates, and friends. Mentors assume these different roles during the course of a relationship, and share some basic qualities:

• A commitment and sincere desire to be involved with a young person

• Respect for young people

• Active listening skills

• Empathy

• Ability to see solutions and opportunities

• Flexibility